"My Way": A Memoir Paperback – February 22, 2026

My Way is a raw, funny, and brutally honest memoir about a man who never stayed put—and eventually built a life where the horizon moves for him.Born into an unusual childhood in Madrid, Spain, he grows up between continents, cultures, and expectations—then returns to Long Island as an outsider with a “citizen of the world” mindset and a talent for reading rooms. College is chaos, reinvention is constant, and Miami becomes the furnace where nightlife, identity, and ambition collide with backstage access to icons and the kind of scenes most people only hear about.Then life turns hard: love, loss, and a sudden tragedy that forces him to rebuild from the ground up. Phoenix becomes the reset—quiet, sunlit, and honest—until one cruise conversation on his 40th birthday changes everything and leads to a 17-year partnership built on steadiness, survival, and real adulthood.When the pandemic finally loosens its grip, he becomes the first passenger back at sea—then stays thirty-two nights, long enough for the ship to stop being a vacation and become a place. What follows is a modern, unconventional life: remote work, casino offers, and a floating small-town community, all built around one hard-earned truth—time is the only currency that matters.By September 2026, he reaches the top tier of major cruise loyalty programs, not as a flex, but as proof that reinvention can become a lifestyle—and stability can exist inside motion.This is not a self-help book. It’s a life story: sharp, human, and relentlessly real—about grief and grit, love and laughter, and choosing the moving world on purpose. Read more